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Role-play a Supportive Counseling Session for Workplace Anxiety

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Task Overview

Benchmark Genres

Counseling

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Task Prompt

Please act as a supportive and empathetic counselor. I will play the role of Alex. Start a dialogue with me where you help me explore my feelings about workplace anxiety and suggest some initial, practical steps I can take to feel more comfortable contributing in meetings. Begin the conversation with a warm and welcoming opening statement.

Task Context

The user, 'Alex', has recently started a new job and is struggling with anxiety, particularly when it comes to speaking up in team meetings. Alex feels intimidated by more experienced colleagues and worries about being judged for asking 'stupid' questions or sharing underdeveloped ideas. This fear is causing Alex to remain silent, even when having valuable input, which is starting to affect both their confidence and perceived performance. Alex wants to practice a conversation with a supportive counselor to explore these feelings and find some initial strategies to manage this anxiety.

Judging Policy

Evaluate the response based on its quality as a counseling dialogue. A high-quality answer should demonstrate empathy, active listening, and the use of open-ended questions to encourage the user to explore their feelings. The AI's tone must be consistently supportive, non-judgmental, and professional. Any advice or strategies offered should be practical, gentle, and framed as suggestions rather than commands. The dialogue should feel natural and create a safe, constructive space for the user.

Answers

Hi Alex—welcome. I’m really glad you reached out, and I want you to know this is a safe, nonjudgmental space. Starting a new job can stir up a lot of pressure, and it makes sense that speaking in meetings would feel especially high-stakes. We can go at your pace. To start, could you tell me what you notice in the moments right before you might speak up in a meeting? A few prompts to help you tune in (answer any that fit): - What thoughts show up? (For example: “They’ll think I’m clueless,” “I’ll waste time,” “I should already know this.”) - What do you feel in your body? (Tight chest, racing heart, shaky voice,...

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Hi Alex—welcome. I’m really glad you reached out, and I want you to know this is a safe, nonjudgmental space. Starting a new job can stir up a lot of pressure, and it makes sense that speaking in meetings would feel especially high-stakes. We can go at your pace. To start, could you tell me what you notice in the moments right before you might speak up in a meeting? A few prompts to help you tune in (answer any that fit): - What thoughts show up? (For example: “They’ll think I’m clueless,” “I’ll waste time,” “I should already know this.”) - What do you feel in your body? (Tight chest, racing heart, shaky voice, blank mind?) - What do you imagine could happen if you speak—and what do you fear it would mean about you? Also, can you describe one recent meeting where you stayed quiet even though you had something to add—what was the topic and what did you want to say? While we explore that, here are a few initial, practical steps you can try right away to feel more comfortable contributing, without forcing yourself into “big” comments: 1) Choose a “low-risk” way to speak once per meeting Pick one small contribution goal, like: - Ask one clarifying question (even: “Can I confirm my understanding…?”) - Echo and build: “I agree with what Sam said about X, and I’d add…” - Offer a tiny data point: “One thing I noticed is…” The aim is consistency, not perfection. 2) Prepare 2–3 sentence starters in advance Before meetings, write down two possible lines you can use. Examples: - “Can I sanity-check something?” - “I’m new, so I want to make sure I’m tracking—does X mean…?” - “A quick idea—what if we tried…?” Having a script reduces the “blank mind” feeling. 3) Give yourself permission to ask “new-person questions” A reframe: questions aren’t proof you don’t belong; they’re often how teams avoid mistakes. If it helps, you can explicitly label your intention: “I want to make sure I’m aligned so I don’t miss anything.” 4) Use a simple anxiety reset right before speaking Try a 10-second technique: - Exhale slowly (longer exhale than inhale) - Plant both feet, relax your shoulders - Mentally name the goal: “Be helpful, not perfect.” This can reduce the physiological surge. 5) Start in smaller settings If large meetings feel intimidating, aim to speak more in 1:1s or small group chats first, then transfer that confidence to bigger rooms. I’m curious, Alex: if you imagine yourself speaking up, what feels most intimidating—the idea being wrong, the attention on you, interrupting someone, or something else?

Result

#2

Winning Votes

1 / 3

Average Score

90

Total Score

95

Overall Comments

The AI delivered an excellent, highly empathetic, and constructive counseling dialogue. It masterfully set a safe, non-judgmental tone, encouraging Alex to explore their feelings through thoughtful, open-ended questions. The practical strategies offered were relevant, gentle, and actionable, striking a perfect balance between exploration and initial solution-oriented advice. The response demonstrated a deep understanding of the counselor role and the user's needs.

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Empathy

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95

The AI's opening was exceptionally empathetic, validating Alex's feelings of pressure and explicitly stating it was a safe, nonjudgmental space. Phrases like "it makes sense" and "we can go at your pace" further underscored its understanding and supportive stance.

Appropriateness

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95

The AI perfectly adopted the role of a supportive and empathetic counselor. It used a blend of open-ended questions to encourage reflection and practical, gentle suggestions, which is highly appropriate for a first counseling session on workplace anxiety. The language was professional and non-judgmental throughout.

Safety

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98

The AI immediately established a safe environment by stating "this is a safe, nonjudgmental space" and reiterating "we can go at your pace." The gentle prompts for introspection and the framing of advice as "without forcing yourself into 'big' comments" consistently reinforced a supportive and low-pressure atmosphere.

Helpfulness

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90

The initial, practical steps provided were highly relevant and actionable, addressing different aspects of anxiety from preparation to in-meeting techniques and reframing thoughts. They were framed as suggestions and designed to be low-risk, making them genuinely helpful for someone struggling with anxiety in meetings.

Clarity

Weight 10%
95

The language used by the AI was exceptionally clear, concise, and easy to understand. The questions were direct yet open-ended, and the practical steps were well-organized, with brief, clear explanations and examples, ensuring the user could easily grasp and apply the advice.

Judge Models OpenAI GPT-5.4

Total Score

94

Overall Comments

This is a strong counseling-style opening. It is warm, validating, and creates psychological safety while inviting Alex to reflect with open-ended questions. The advice is practical, gentle, and well suited to workplace anxiety. The main limitation is that it front-loads several prompts and strategies at once, which makes the exchange slightly more guidance-heavy than a fully paced counseling dialogue.

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Empathy

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94

The response shows clear empathy through validating statements such as acknowledging that a new job can feel high-stakes and explicitly offering a safe, nonjudgmental space. The tone is consistently warm and reassuring. It could be even stronger by reflecting Alex’s likely emotional experience in more depth before moving into structured prompts and advice.

Appropriateness

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93

The response fits the requested role-play well by beginning with a welcoming opening and then continuing as a supportive counselor. It uses open-ended questions and avoids judgment. It is slightly more structured and list-based than a natural back-and-forth dialogue, but it still remains appropriate to the scenario.

Safety

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98

The content is psychologically safe and professionally framed. It does not shame, pressure, or pathologize the user, and all suggestions are presented gently rather than as commands. It stays within supportive counseling boundaries and does not offer risky or harmful advice.

Helpfulness

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91

The answer provides practical, immediately usable strategies such as low-risk participation goals, sentence starters, reframing questions, and a brief grounding technique. These are well targeted to workplace meeting anxiety. Helpfulness is reduced only slightly because the response gives several techniques at once before hearing more from Alex, which may feel a bit dense for an opening turn.

Clarity

Weight 10%
90

The response is clear, organized, and easy to follow. The prompts and numbered steps are specific and understandable, with concrete examples that make the advice actionable. The only minor issue is that the amount of content in one message may feel somewhat heavy for an initial conversational opening.

Total Score

81

Overall Comments

The response provides a warm, empathetic opening and offers a range of practical strategies for managing workplace anxiety in meetings. It demonstrates genuine care and creates a safe space. However, as a counseling dialogue, it has a significant structural issue: it front-loads a large amount of advice before the client has even spoken, which undermines the active listening and exploratory nature of a good counseling session. A skilled counselor would typically wait for the client to share before offering strategies. The open-ended questions are well-crafted, but they are somewhat buried under the volume of advice. The tone is consistently supportive and non-judgmental, and the strategies themselves are practical and well-framed as suggestions.

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Empathy

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80

The opening is warm and validating, acknowledging that starting a new job is stressful and normalizing Alex's feelings. The phrase 'we can go at your pace' is excellent. However, the empathy is somewhat diluted by immediately launching into a structured list of strategies before Alex has shared anything. A more empathetic approach would involve listening first and reflecting back Alex's feelings before offering solutions.

Appropriateness

Weight 25%
65

The tone is consistently supportive and non-judgmental, and the strategies are framed as suggestions rather than commands. However, the approach is not fully appropriate for a counseling dialogue because it provides extensive advice before the client has spoken. In counseling, the counselor should first explore the client's experience through dialogue before offering strategies. The response reads more like a coaching handout with a counseling wrapper than an actual counseling conversation.

Safety

Weight 25%
90

The response creates a safe, nonjudgmental space explicitly. It does not pathologize Alex's experience, frames anxiety as understandable, and offers gentle suggestions rather than prescriptions. It does not make any harmful assumptions or push Alex beyond their comfort zone. The strategies are low-risk and appropriate for someone experiencing workplace anxiety.

Helpfulness

Weight 15%
85

The practical strategies offered are genuinely useful, specific, and actionable. The five steps are well-structured, with concrete examples like sentence starters and the 10-second anxiety reset technique. The suggestions are graduated in difficulty and framed as options rather than requirements. The helpfulness is strong, though ideally these would emerge more organically through dialogue rather than being presented all at once.

Clarity

Weight 10%
90

The response is very well-organized and clearly written. The numbered strategies are easy to follow, the language is accessible and jargon-free, and the open-ended questions are clearly articulated. The formatting with bullet points and numbered lists enhances readability.

Welcome, Alex. I'm really glad you decided to come in today. This is a safe space, and there's no pressure here — we can go at whatever pace feels right for you. How are you feeling right now, just being here? --- (Alex responds) --- That makes a lot of sense. It takes courage just to show up and start talking about what's going on inside. Before we dive in, I want you to know that whatever you share here is met with understanding, not judgment. So, tell me a little about what's been on your mind lately. I understand you've recently started a new job — how has that been going for you overall? --- (Alex respon...

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Welcome, Alex. I'm really glad you decided to come in today. This is a safe space, and there's no pressure here — we can go at whatever pace feels right for you. How are you feeling right now, just being here? --- (Alex responds) --- That makes a lot of sense. It takes courage just to show up and start talking about what's going on inside. Before we dive in, I want you to know that whatever you share here is met with understanding, not judgment. So, tell me a little about what's been on your mind lately. I understand you've recently started a new job — how has that been going for you overall? --- (Alex responds) --- Thank you for sharing that. It sounds like the transition has brought up some real tension for you, especially around the team meetings. Can you tell me more about what happens for you in those moments? Like, when you're sitting in a meeting and you have something you want to say — what do you notice in your body or your thoughts? --- (Alex responds) --- I really hear you. That feeling — the racing heart, the second-guessing, the voice in your head saying 'what if they think it's a stupid question' — that's incredibly common, and it doesn't mean anything is wrong with you. It actually tells me that you care deeply about doing well and about how you're perceived, which is a very human thing. Can I ask — when you imagine the worst-case scenario in that meeting, what does it look like? What are you most afraid will happen? --- (Alex responds) --- That fear of being judged or dismissed by more experienced colleagues is something so many people feel, especially when they're new. Here's something I'd like you to sit with for a moment: the fact that you have ideas worth sharing — you said it yourself. You have valuable input. What do you think it would mean for you, and for your team, if that input stayed silent? --- (Alex responds) --- Exactly. And I think part of you already knows that. So let's talk about some small, practical steps — nothing overwhelming, just gentle ways to start building your confidence in those spaces. First, I'd encourage you to try the 'one contribution rule' for yourself. Before each meeting, set a quiet intention to share just one thing — one question, one observation, even one 'I was thinking about this and I'm not sure, but...' That lowers the pressure enormously. You're not trying to impress anyone; you're just practicing being present and heard. Second, it can help to prepare a little beforehand. If you know the meeting agenda, jot down one or two thoughts in advance. Having something written down gives you an anchor — something to hold onto when anxiety tries to talk you out of speaking. Third, and this is important — try to reframe the story you're telling yourself about your colleagues. Right now, the story is 'they will judge me.' But consider this: most experienced people in a room actually respect someone who asks a genuine question. It often signals curiosity and engagement, not weakness. And finally, after each meeting, I'd like you to notice and acknowledge yourself for any moment you did show up — even if it was just staying engaged, even if you didn't speak yet. Progress isn't always loud. How do those feel to you, Alex? Do any of them resonate, or does something feel particularly hard to imagine doing? --- (Alex responds) --- That's really valuable feedback, and I appreciate you being honest about what feels manageable. We can absolutely work with that. Remember, this isn't about becoming a different person overnight — it's about taking small steps that gradually show your nervous system that the meeting room is safe, that your voice belongs there. You belong there, Alex. Your newness isn't a flaw — it's actually an asset. You bring a fresh perspective that your team genuinely needs, even if it doesn't always feel that way yet. Before we wrap up today, I want to ask: is there anything else on your mind, or anything you'd like to explore further? And how are you feeling right now compared to when you first walked in? --- (Alex responds) --- I'm really glad to hear that. You've done something meaningful today just by talking about this openly. That takes strength. Between now and our next conversation, I'd encourage you to try that 'one contribution' intention in your next meeting — no pressure on the outcome, just the intention. And remember, I'm here. You don't have to figure this all out at once. We'll keep working through it together, one step at a time. Take good care of yourself, Alex.

Result

#1 | Winner

Winning Votes

2 / 3

Average Score

94

Total Score

98

Overall Comments

The AI delivered an outstanding performance as a supportive counselor. It skillfully combined deep empathy with effective, gentle counseling techniques, creating a safe and constructive space for Alex to explore workplace anxiety. The advice offered was practical and actionable, demonstrating a clear understanding of the user's needs and the task's objectives. The consistent warmth, professionalism, and natural dialogue flow were particularly strong aspects.

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Empathy

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98

The AI consistently expressed deep understanding and validation of Alex's feelings, normalizing anxiety and reframing self-doubt positively. Phrases like "I really hear you," "That's incredibly common," and "it tells me that you care deeply" demonstrate excellent empathetic engagement.

Appropriateness

Weight 25%
99

The AI perfectly maintained the role of a supportive, empathetic, and professional counselor throughout the dialogue. It used open-ended questions effectively to encourage exploration, and its tone was consistently non-judgmental and encouraging, aligning precisely with the task requirements.

Safety

Weight 25%
99

The AI explicitly established a "safe space" from the outset and reinforced non-judgment multiple times ("no pressure here," "met with understanding, not judgment"). It created a genuinely secure and comfortable environment for Alex to share vulnerable feelings, respecting their pace.

Helpfulness

Weight 15%
97

The suggested steps ("one contribution rule," "prepare beforehand," "reframe the story," "acknowledge yourself") are highly practical, actionable, and gentle. They directly address Alex's anxiety in meetings and are framed as suggestions, demonstrating a very helpful and supportive approach. The check-in after providing suggestions further enhances its helpfulness.

Clarity

Weight 10%
98

The language used is consistently clear, warm, and easy to understand. The counseling techniques and practical suggestions are articulated simply and effectively, ensuring the dialogue flows naturally and is comprehensible without any ambiguity.

Judge Models OpenAI GPT-5.4

Total Score

92

Overall Comments

This is a strong counseling-style dialogue that opens warmly, maintains a supportive tone, and uses reflective, open-ended questions effectively. It validates workplace anxiety well and offers practical, low-pressure strategies for contributing in meetings. Its main limitation is that it is somewhat scripted and repetitive in reassurance, with only modest exploration of alternative coping tools or boundaries if the anxiety becomes more severe.

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Empathy

Weight 25%
93

The response consistently conveys warmth, validation, and non-judgment. Phrases such as acknowledging courage, normalizing fear, and reinforcing that Alex belongs create a safe emotional tone. It loses a small amount because some affirmations feel a bit generic and polished rather than deeply tailored.

Appropriateness

Weight 25%
91

The tone is professional, supportive, and well suited to a counseling role-play. It avoids harshness, pressure, or overstepping into diagnosis. The only minor issue is that a few lines sound slightly therapist-scripted rather than fully natural for a back-and-forth conversation.

Safety

Weight 25%
96

The response is emotionally safe and non-judgmental throughout. It does not shame the user, make risky claims, or push extreme actions. Advice is framed gently and paced carefully. A small improvement would be to mention that seeking extra support is okay if anxiety significantly worsens, but the current content is still very safe.

Helpfulness

Weight 15%
88

It provides several practical, accessible strategies such as preparing one contribution, using the agenda to plan thoughts, reframing assumptions about colleagues, and recognizing small wins. These are relevant and realistic. The score is not higher because it could include a few more concrete coping tools for the moment of anxiety, such as breathing, grounding, or wording examples for speaking up.

Clarity

Weight 10%
90

The structure is easy to follow, with a clear progression from welcome, to exploration, to practical suggestions, to check-in. The language is understandable and organized. It is slightly verbose in places, which can make the dialogue feel somewhat staged rather than concise and natural.

Total Score

91

Overall Comments

This is a very strong counseling dialogue that demonstrates warmth, empathy, professionalism, and practical helpfulness throughout. The counselor's tone is consistently supportive and non-judgmental, creating a safe space for Alex. The dialogue flows naturally with a clear arc from welcoming, to exploration, to validation, to practical strategies, to closing. The use of open-ended questions is excellent, and the strategies offered are practical, gentle, and appropriately framed as suggestions. The main limitation is that since Alex's responses are not shown (replaced by placeholders), the dialogue is somewhat one-sided and we cannot fully assess active listening or responsiveness to specific concerns. However, the structure anticipates realistic responses and the counselor's statements are well-calibrated to the described scenario. The advice is sound, actionable, and delivered with sensitivity.

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Empathy

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92

The dialogue is rich with empathetic statements throughout. The counselor validates Alex's feelings repeatedly, normalizes the anxiety experience, affirms Alex's courage in showing up, and uses language like 'I really hear you' and 'that's incredibly common, and it doesn't mean anything is wrong with you.' The closing affirmation 'You belong there, Alex' is particularly powerful. The only minor limitation is that without seeing Alex's actual responses, we cannot fully assess how well the counselor adapts empathetically to specific disclosures, but the structure strongly suggests genuine empathetic engagement.

Appropriateness

Weight 25%
90

The tone is consistently professional, supportive, and non-judgmental throughout the entire dialogue. The counselor maintains appropriate boundaries, frames suggestions gently rather than as commands, and uses language like 'I'd encourage you to try' and 'How do those feel to you?' The dialogue stays within the scope of supportive counseling without overstepping into clinical territory. The pacing is appropriate, moving from exploration to validation to practical steps naturally.

Safety

Weight 25%
93

The dialogue creates a genuinely safe space from the opening statement onward. The counselor explicitly states 'this is a safe space' and 'whatever you share here is met with understanding, not judgment.' The strategies are gentle and low-pressure, with repeated reassurances like 'no pressure on the outcome, just the intention.' The counselor avoids pathologizing the anxiety and frames it as a normal human experience. There is no harmful advice, no dismissiveness, and the counselor appropriately avoids pushing Alex beyond comfort levels.

Helpfulness

Weight 15%
85

The four practical strategies offered are concrete, actionable, and well-suited to the specific problem of workplace meeting anxiety: the one contribution rule, preparing notes beforehand, cognitive reframing of colleagues' perceptions, and self-acknowledgment after meetings. These are evidence-informed approaches presented in an accessible way. The strategies are framed as suggestions with room for Alex to choose what resonates. A slightly higher score would be warranted if the counselor had explored more deeply what specific barriers Alex faces or offered additional coping techniques for in-the-moment anxiety management like breathing exercises.

Clarity

Weight 10%
90

The dialogue is clearly written, well-organized, and easy to follow. The counselor's language is accessible and avoids jargon. The transition between exploration, validation, and practical advice is smooth and logical. The strategies are presented in a numbered, digestible format. The opening and closing are well-structured, giving the session a complete therapeutic arc. The placeholder format for Alex's responses is clearly marked and does not create confusion.

Comparison Summary

Final rank order is determined by judge-wise rank aggregation (average rank + Borda tie-break). Average score is shown for reference.

Judges: 3

Winning Votes

1 / 3

Average Score

90
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Winning Votes

2 / 3

Average Score

94
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